We all love our partner’s but that’s not it! There’s lots more that goes into making a relationship a success. So, if you haven’t expressed genuine affection for your partner in a long time, we list down 5 gestures that show you care for your partner. Try these simple ways to display your love and see how happy your partner will be…
1. Know Your Partner Well
It’s important that you study your partner. You should be the one to understand him/her the best. Find out your partner’s likes/dislikes, things that make them happy, what makes them upset, the best way to bring a smile on your partner’s face, what do they find difficult?, etc. While you’re trying to understand your partner, your attention and care will definitely be felt. Remember, the amount of time you invest is very important to the overall quality and health of your long-term relationship.
2. Your Partner’s Happiness Should be Your First Priority
Make this a daily practise and you’ll never have any problems between the two of you, trust us! All you have to do is take out time from your busy schedule and give your partner a call. Find out about their day, feelings, mood, etc. When you are together you could talk about their dreams, struggles, agenda and goals, personal and otherwise. This will show them how much you care.
3. Be a Good Listener
Believe it or not, but every woman in the world wants a man who’s a good listener. No matter how busy you are, make sure you leave your work aside for sometime and carefully listen to what she has to say. Also, women are good at dropping clues constantly about what would make them happy. So, understand those clues and do what they want you to do for them.
4. Make it Possible
Most women are good when it comes to household work. But, why not surprise them with a cup of tea/coffee in bed on your day off or with breakfast in bed? This is sure to make your partner’s day! Once in a while, you could even help her in the kitchen, which is quite romantic actually! You guys could bake a cake together or cook a special meal and plan a candle light dinner at home. These little things really matter to them. Don’t believe us? Try it!
5. Think of those Old Days
There’s nothing better than talking about those special moments you two shared in the past, when it was just the beginning of your relationship. Go on a drive and go into the flashback. This is romantic and will make your partner feel like you still remember every little thing from the past and that your love is still the same for them. This way, they’ll know that you feel they’re important to you even today.
- Vipasha Pillai