The first meeting with your prospective spouse is an important one for anybody looking forward to get married. Whether you’re looking for a partner on a matrimonial website or offline, it’s important you know what do people notice on the first meeting, so that it’s easy for you to set a good first impression on them. We list down some characteristics that most people observe in their prospective partner on the first meeting…
Right from your outfit, hairstyle and make-up, make sure you are looking your best on this day. If you come in a hurry with a messy hairstyle or miss-matched outfit, be sure to be rejected. You need to look presentable, so plan things in advance. For men, its best to be dressed in casuals. You could wear a pair of jeans paired with a T-shirt or a shirt, but please do not wear formals for your first meeting. You are going to meet your prospective spouse and not heading for a meeting.
It’s not just what you wear that matters but also how you talk and how you react to certain things. If you have a positive personality, your partner could even be willing to ignore certain differences between the two of you and accept you the way you are. So, be upfront and positive.
Most people prefer a partner with a friendly attitude. This will help both of you understand each other better. If you are arrogant and loud, it’s best to leave this attitude back home, as it will only ruin your first meeting. The way you greet your potential spouse is enough to understand how modest you are.
4. Sense of Humor
If you sit with a boring face without smiling or making an attempt to be witty, your partner is only going to get bored. We are not saying, you must know how to be funny but you can at least try to bring a smile on his/her face. Women love it, trust us!
This matters the most! You two need to have at least a bit in common and should feel comfortable with each other, only then can things click between the two of you in the future. So, make an attempt to find a connect.
- Vipasha Pillai