How To Assess if He/She Is The Right Match For You?

Wondering if He/she is the right match for you? We know the search for your ‘ideal’ partner can be a tricky one, so here is a simple way to assess if you have found your ‘right’ match…

1. Be Clear
It is good to have a clear idea about the qualities and characteristics you’re looking for in your soulmate; but the key is to be realistic. While it’s good to have a fair idea of what you really desire, you need to prioritize what you really want and what really matters. Not everyone is lucky to find a superstar – someone like Aishwarya Rai Bachchan or Sachin Tendulkar.

2. Find Out How Compatible The Two of You Are
If you already like someone and think he/she can be your soulmate, try writing down the qualities you expect in your partner and also write down reasons why you want to be with him/her. You could also jot down some positive points from situations that you think were handled pretty well by your partner. Once your list is ready, try rating your partner on a scale of 1 to 10. If s/he scores well, then may be yes, s/he is the right one for you. If not, it’s best to move on.

3. Another Test
Well, if you decide to go ahead with your partner, try another test on him/her. Prepare a list of qualities that are a must for you. For instance, women could list about the guy’s income, etc. From this list, check out how many qualities stand true for your partner. If the score is decent enough, you can think of going ahead with the relationship, else it’s best to begin your search again.

4. Give it time
Don’t do the math just after meeting someone for the very first time. You need to meet and interact with your prospective partner to actually know him better and evaluate him/her on the parameters you have listed. If you think things are working and you feel drawn to the person, it’s time to rate him/her on your list of desired qualities.

- Hemant Kumar, Customer Relationship Management

This entry was posted by Shaadilive on August 2, 2011 in Shaadi Tips and tagged , , . Bookmark the permalink.

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