Things You Should Never Tell Your Prospective Partner
It’s said that coming clean is the beginning of starting something good in a relationship. But, there are some things that can just end a relationship even before it begins. Yes, it’s always good to be frank with your partner but at the same time there are some things you should never discuss with your prospective spouse. When we say some things, we mean…
1) About Your Ex
You do not have to get emotional and start making a bunch of confessions. Your partner doesn’t need to know about your past. In case, s/he asks you about your ex, say as little as possible. Disclosing all about your ex can only lead to feelings like jealousy and suspicion.
2) Anything Negative
We mean your partner’s over all personality. It’s better to remain quite at times, especially in the beginning of a relationship. If there’s anything that you dislike about him/her, just keep it to yourself. It’s somehow not a great idea to criticize a person so early and expect him/her to change.
3) A List of People You Dislike
You may be the best person on planet earth but not too many people like you, which is absolutely fine. That doesn’t mean you come up with a list of names you dislike and start complaining about each of them. Why would your partner be interested in knowing why you hate someone who he doesn’t even know? Avoid sounding negative.
4) We’ll Move Out After Marriage
Oh, so you think you’ll never be able to get along with your in-laws? And why is that? Is it because you’ve got some live examples in your friend circle or family who’re living away from their in-laws and are happier in life or because you think in-laws just interfere too much? If you talk about living separately after marriage, be prepared to be rejected. No guy would take it, trust us!
5) Personal Problems
Last but not the least, let your personal problems be personal. Don’t forget that you’re still getting to know each other, so save it for the future. If you keep complaining about how unhappy you are in life about everything, your partner is sure to lose interest in you.
– Vipasha Pillai