Since you have registered yourself on Shaadi.com, here are some tips you might want to know about how to get ‘Interests’ from people on your matrimonial profile. Here’s what you need to do…
Tip One: A Complete Profile
Your matrimonial profile is like your resume and an incomplete resume can never get you a good job. Similarly, complete profiles always have a better chance of grabbing more attention on the website. The first two things that most people notice in your profile is your picture and what you write about yourself in the ‘About Me’ section. So be a little serious and write the truth about yourself. Also, avoid too many errors because lots of of mistakes and shortcuts (chat language) will only show how laidback or careless you are.
Tip Two: Your Profile Photo
A lot of people complain that they haven’t been getting good response on their profile because they are not good to look at. But believe us, it’s not always looks that matter to everyone. What you write about yourself and the type of picture you upload really matters. Natural images always work better. Avoid uploading images clicked at a studio. You can just click pictures from your phone and upload them instantly. How you present yourself and the quality of the picture is what matters.
Tip Three: Your Choice of Partner
What kind of information you post about the kind of partner you are looking for is important. It’s best to cover the points that are relevant to the two of you together – family, future plans, personality, likes and dislikes. A lot of people just write, “Looking for a someone who is fun loving, understanding, caring and a family person.” This is not enough! You could talk about things you are likely to share in your first few meetings. Also, refrain from writing too much, it only makes the opposite person feel you have high expectations, which will scare them. Stick to the point and write in short or you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Tip Four: Login in Regularly and Respond to People – People who log onto Shaadi.com regularly are considered more serious by other members on the website. They check your Last Login, before expressing interest in your profile. So, take out sometime everyday and check your profile. Be nice to people and respond to them. If you take days to respond, people tend to lose interest and might cancle interest in your profile. If you are not interested in a certain profile, we suggest you ‘Decline’ the interest, rather then keeping them waiting.
- Vipasha Pillai